1. Your first step is to try to show him that he really misses you and want to get back with you. But this could be a difficult one, it really depends on why you broke up to begone with. Does he really not want anything to do with you, have you pushed him too far and he is done? Well, lets look at a few options you can take if this is the scenario.
2. One of the best way's to convince him is to just be his friend. How do you do that? by listening to him, not nagging and complaining. Show him that you understand him, and that you can listen without throwing a fit. Rediscover your sense of humor and joke around with him. This will remind him of how it used to be and he may realize that he wants you back again.
3. When he gets to the point where he feels comfortable being around you again and talking to you, then show a little attitude. Let him see some self confidence and a little sass. You want to make him want you, but you also want him to feel that it won't be easy to get you. Playing a little hard to get can make him want you more.
4. While you are playing hard to get also try to get the message out to him that you are available. And make sure that you still go out with friends and have interests in things. A little flirting is fine, a little jealousy on his part is good, but if you want him back make sure that you don't get cozy with anybody else. There is a fine line here, because if he thinks you are with somebody else, he could lose all interest. So even though you may flirt with others, make sure he is aware that you have no interest in them.
5. What ever you do, do not act desperate or needy! You want him to feel that you are fine without him, even though you miss him, and that if this is really how he wants it, then you can be fine with that and that you are willing to move on.
6. And don't hesitate to flirt with him a little. If you notice him looking at him then make sure to look back, with a small smile, that let's him know that you a paying attention to him, but in a kind of "you can't have me" kind of way.
7. When you do get the opportunity to sit and talk with him, don't bring up any of the bad times you had together. Instead bring up the happy moments and the good times you had together. This will remind him of how happy you both were together and how much you both enjoyed each other.
These are just a few of the steps you can take to get your ex back when he has moved on. And they aren't my steps, these are the steps I discovered in "The Magic Of Making Up". And guess what, They Work! So if you need more help with getting your ex back if he has moved on, then you need to check "The Magic Of Making Up" Out. You Can get it Here.
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