Has The Passion For Your Relationship Died?

When I started to do some research on "Passion in a  Relationship"  I was really confused.  My initial intention was to learn more about Passion for a relationship, but all the information I ran across linked passion with sex.  Not that I don't think sex should not have passion in it, or that couples should not have sexual passion for each other...I feel both is a positive attribute to have in a relationship.  It's just that I felt you should have a passion FOR your relationship for it to work, (and if you have passion for your relationship, well then, you will have a passionate sex life- a benefit of having passion for your relationship) and unfortunately I couldn't find anything on that.

So, where is the Passion For Your Relationship?  Why isn't there a blaringly common threat on that subject like there is on communication in a relationship. 

Maybe it's just me who is confused about the word "Passion".  So I immediately went to the dictionary to find the correct meaning.  This is what I found:

pas·sion [pash-uhn]
–noun
1.  any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate.
2.  strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor.
3.  strong sexual desire; lust.
4.  an instance or experience of strong love or sexual desire.
5.  a person toward whom one feels strong love or sexual desire.
6.  a strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything: a passion for music.
7.  the object of such a fondness or desire: Accuracy became a passion with him.
8.  an outburst of strong emotion or feeling: He suddenly broke into a passion of bitter words.
9.  violent anger.
10. the state of being acted upon or affected by something external, especially something alien to one's nature or one's customary behavior (contrasted with action).
11. (often initial capital letter) Theology .
     a. the sufferings of Christ on the cross or His sufferings subsequent to the Last Supper.
     b. the narrative of Christ's sufferings as recorded in the Gospels.
12. Archaic . the sufferings of a martyr.

So what I'm reading is that passion is a strong emotion, that could be love, anger, happiness, etc..... It's us who equate it with love or anger, It' basically "Just A Strong Emotion" about or for something.  A passion for singing...A passion for painting....A passion for my relationship.  Yeah, that works.  So, it's my observation that when most of us get into a relationship with someone, that relationship should start out with a passion.... to be with the other person, to have sex, to have that relationship work out.  That is our ultimate goal.  To have the relationship work out, to be with that person for a long, long time.  That is where the passion starts, and ultimately that is the kind of passion I was looking for.

Here is a quote from John Little Prince that explains Passion to a tee, and notice that the word sex isn't mentioned once.

"What is passion? For most people, the word “passion” refers to that something which they can do with utmost fondness, that something which awakens their inner desires to go beyond typical, that something which drives them to forget that they are alive and causes them to go beyond natural. Passion for some is that something which they truly love with supreme sincerity, that something which allows them to wake up in the morning with something to look forward to, and above all, that something which gives them genuine happiness in their lives. Passion is defined by many things to many people."

"I, however, believe that passion cannot be defined in all its brilliance by mere words. Instead, passion defines."

“Tell me what your passion is, and I’ll tell you who you are.”

-John Little Prince


Now that I have that figured out, and probably bored you in the meantime (sorry) let's get on with the initial question.

Has the Passion for your relationship died?  Do you no longer desire it to work? Is everything a drudge, takes too much effort. Do you fantasize about having your own place, someplace where he/she isn't.  (that was my fantasy for the longest time!)  We'll before you give up completely, lets look at some other options.

Do you know that you Can Get The Passion back?  I know that it might sound impossible right now, and maybe your thinking, "why would I possibly want it back?" "Yuck! You can have him/her, cause I'm done!"  Well, slow down just a minute here.  At one time you "had a Passion for him/her, and for this relationship that your in."  Plus, your here so your obviously online looking for a solution.  So, lets just take a minute and look at this.

What you need to do it to take a little timeout from everything.  Just a little while, because if you want to get this relationship back on track your going to need to do a little work.  So, take a little time out and sit back and go back to when your relationship just started out.  I want you to go right back there and remember how you felt, all the emotions.

Now I want you to really focus on the feelings of that memory.  That feeling is called Passion, passion for this relationship, for that person.  That is the feeling we need to bring back.

So how do you start?  The first thing I feel you need to do is bring that feeling up every day. Everyday when you get up and look across at that person, remember that feeling.

Second, of course is communication.  A long-term marriage or relationship based on compatible friendship with good communication can revive the old courtship days when they are needed. But, unfortunately it's the thing most couples lack.


You both might be filling the same way, but if you won't talk about it then you just sit there and let it eat you up inside.

SO, here are three tips to help you re-open the communication lines:

1.  You both need to sit down, not together, and write each other a letter.  Talk about what has been bothering, things you might not understand about your partner, how you want things to be, what you miss.  The list can go on and on. You don't need to cover all of these topics in one letter, but at least start with one.  Try to keep any blaming or negative accusations our of the letter, just express how you feel. Give your letter to your partner, and set up a time for a later date to discuss them.

2.  Get together, over coffee or lunch, and discuss the letters.  How they made you feel, etc.... once again, don't blame, attack, or feel like your being blamed or attacked.  Just listen and acknowledge the other person when they share.

If you have a hard time sharing or discussing things without blowing up, then do this exercise out in a public place. Just remember not to take things personal or get defensive.

3.  Try to make this a weekly, or every other day, thing to do. This exercise should open up the communication lines, and get both of you reconnected, which will bring the passion in your relationship back.

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PASSION And Connection In Your Relationship

Is your relationship getting stale?  Is it moving in the same direction that everyone's elses is, you know the good old hum-drums?  Yawn......

Are you feeling like your being taken advantage of, because your partner doesn't take the time anymore.  You know, that special look or hug, the genuine look of interest in their eyes. Has all the romance disappeared? 

I use to really hate it when my spouse thought being romantic was a quickie.  Where did the intimacy go?  Where are the candles, the quiet moments of just talking, touching, just being together.

Well, don't worry, you can get it back.....You CAN HAVE PASSION AND FEEL CONNECTED in your relationship. Sometimes in relationships we can have security, compatibility, love and the same life dreams together, but life and the responsibilities of living can have a corossive effect on our passion and connection with our partner.... If we let it.

Keeping the passion and connection in our relationship just requires us to put a little energy in that direction.  And if it's really something that you want back, then a little positive energy in that direction will be well worth it. 

In today's world we seem to get caught in the not enough energy cycle.  But,  if you can make a little time to put the passion and connection back into your relationship,  it will be well worth it,  besides,  positive energy always makes the world seem more do-able, and believe it or not can create more energy!

So, how do you go about creating more passion and connection in your relationship?  I have made a list of a few of the ways you can create that, and after reading this list I'm sure you will be able to come up with a few of your own.

1.  Remember when you were dating?  Some how you managed to take the time then... Well, do the same now!  What a novel idea!  No, you don't have to go out.  You can create passion and connection right in your own home.  First think about what it is you and your spouse used to do, Then imagine doing that again, this will get you in the mood to be romantic yourself. Then plan the most romantic evening you can think of, something that will allow you and your spouse to have time to talk and reconnect emotionally.  Don't bring up any issues you might have at the moment, let them go for the night.  If you have kids, have a friend or relative take them for the night or a few hours. Also don't get your expectations up, just plan on a quiet night to just be together, if the passion starts to fly, well Great!

2.  Remember - anything ignored will disappear,  this includes your passion and connection to each other.  So try to make it a daily habit to say something positive to your spouse.... with sinceriety.  Tell them how great they look, or how much you love them, or how grateful you are for them, you get the idea.  Sometimes just a small note can say a lot. And we all love those occasionally unexpected cards. The point is, just verbalizing our appreciation can make a big change.

3.  Do you give your spouse a peck on the check when they leave for the day?  Try this.  When they lean in for that little peck, grab them and lay a real kiss on them, and make sure to put a little passion in it.  That will give them something to think about all day long.

4.  Create a few games to spice up your love life, this will put a little fun along with passion back into your relationship. 

5.  Play Truth or Dare.  Remember how much fun that used to be?  Well it still can be fun and can also open up a positive dialogue with your mate.  Just make sure to keep all negativity out of it.  Now is not the time to say things that might need a counselor present.

6.  Take a bubble bath! By candelight!  Another great idea and so relaxing and romantic.  And yes, you both can fit in a regular sized tub.  I'm 5'10" (female) and we would just wrap ourselfs around each other, very cozy!  My spouse and I used to soap up each others back and write special messages, then we would try to figure out what the message was.  Really hard to do, but so much fun! Give it a try.

Well these should get your imagination going.  Just remember that the passion and connection in your relationship takes you to be conscious of it,  So take action on creating it.

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Does My Ex Want Me Back

If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it's okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself "does my ex want me back"?

These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.

Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets. If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.

Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they  may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?", but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before  you act. In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the  best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.

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Yes, You Can Get Your Ex Back!

You are abviously here because you have recently broken up with your spouse, significant other, boyfriend, or girlfriend, and are looking for ways to either get through the breakup  or advice on how to save your relationship.

 Either way, you have come to the right place.                   

Relationships are very difficult in our world today. Today, nearly 50% of marriages fail, and that's not including people who are not married. And we all know there are alot of relationships out there that don't have a marriage certificate.


And it's useless at this point to try and tell you why your relationship might have failed. You have more of a clue then anybody. But if you can't get your relationship back on track, then looking at all they why's will be something you might want to get into.  Hopefully, this will help you with your next relationship.  And yes, if you don't get this one back on track, then there will be other relationships.

But before you start exploring why your relationship broke up, maybe you should be exploring ways to get your partner back.

I recently had a breakup of my own, And through the tears and the misery I searched for ways to help reconcile our relationship.  I just wasn't going to give in that easily. I loved this person very much and just couldn't imagine being without him. Through my search I ran across a lot of stuff that didn't work at all. Until I found "The Magic Of Making Up"

This is a great book, and provided me with the best solution to getting my boyfriend back, and guess what, it worked. His advice was perfect for me, and I know from past experience that everything he told me is completely true. So take it from me, If you want to get your ex back, then there is no better way to do it than through the guaranteed strategy outlined in The Magic of Making Up.



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What Can I Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your ex away further? Is this describing your situation to a tee? Are you asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back" at every turn? Here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.

Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship, which is what led you to this article in the first place. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is
completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.

Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.

So What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back? Follow this strategy instead.

You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.

During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him.

You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place.

Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don't (don't over do it) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top. And then you will stop asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back"